从小学四年级的你预测到今天的你，有多准？ 下

墨菲

If you were Accepted, then you have probably had a very different life than the others. You are confident and optimistic, maybe even a little too much sometimes.  
如果你是被接受型，那么你可能拥有与他人截然不同的生活。你很自信，也很乐观，甚至有时候会有一点过度。

在工作和个人生活中，你培养新的人际关系时很得心应手，并且习惯运用你的优势。也许你是一个领导者，也许是邻居之间的交际花，也许你承诺要加深你与朋友、家人的关系。

If you have an argument, you are less likely to think about retaliation and more likely to think of ways to resolve conflict by strengthening your relationship. Whatever you are doing, you are more likely than any of your elementary school playmates to feel like your life has meaning and you are flourishing.
如果发生了争吵，你可能很少会想着如何报复回来，更多的会想着如何通过加强关系来解决对抗问题。与所有的小学同学相比，无论你做什么，你都会觉得你的生活充满意义，你的生命欣欣向荣。

Of course, not everyone who was Rejected turns out to have difficulties, just as not everyone who was Accepted has a lifetime of success.
当然，并不是所有被拒绝型的人都会遇到困难，就像不是每一个被接受型的人一生中都会获得成功。

将小学生按好感度简单地划分为五类，能更好地预测我们成年后的生活，比我们原来想象地更准确，而研究所得出的结论与这个发现高度吻合。

In fact, we even have some evidence to suggest that how likeable you were in elementary school is affecting how you parent your own children, and how liked they will be as they grow up.
实际上，还有很多证据证明，小学时你的受喜爱程度会影响你如何教育孩子，以及他们会成为什么样的人。

爱的掌门人

“小学时你的受喜爱程度会影响你如何教育孩子，以及他们会成为什么样的人”

范小成

自己拥有什么样的价值观，和为人处世的方法，以后会在潜移默化中影响孩子

墨菲

支持~顶一下

9zjuzilaoshi

感谢分享，很棒