以下就是许多青少年的采访体验,从中找出了前四种人格类型的青少年。以后会在我的微博上更新后五种人格类型。听听他们的心声,也许你也有和他们一样的想法。除此之外,本文还列举了一些名人名言,看看这些大师级别的任务又是如何评价的吧。
One-Perfectionist (doing things the right way): “I’m the judge of things done right and wrong. Everything I own has to be in the right spot or else I can’t stand to even stay there. Nothing can be crooked. I have such high standards and expectations that most people can’t meet them. Even the smallest things bug me, such as jagged edges or wrinkles in my bedspread. – Sam
第一种——完美型(以正确的方式做事情):“我是评判事情对错的法官。我拥有的所有东西都必须在正确的位置,或者我无法容忍它们无乱无中,仅仅是放在那里都不行。”没有任何东西是可以扭曲的。我的要求如此高,我估计大部分的人不能达到我的标准。甚至是最微小的事情都能惹怒我,比如不整齐的边缘,或者是我床单上的褶皱。”——山姆
Be content with what you have; rejoice in the way things are. When you realize nothing’s lacking, the whole world belongs to you. - Lao Tzu
满足你所拥有的;庆幸事情是这种方式的。当你意识到不缺少任何东西时,整个世界将属于你。——老子
Two-Helper (doing things for others): “I want to be liked and to be part of a group who cares about me. I feel really sad if an animal dies on a TV show. I get emotionally hurt easily and have a hard time dealing with people who think I’m too demanding.” – Sookie
第二种——助人型(帮助他人):“我想被人喜欢,想成为关心我的组织的一员。看到电视上的动物死去,我会非常地伤心。我非常容易受到感情上的伤害,”
Appreciation is a wonderful thing: It makes what is excellent in others belong to us as well. ~ Voltaire
学会欣赏是多么奇妙的事情:它能让别人身上美好的事物也属于我们。——伏尔泰
Three-Achiever (wanting to succeed): “Wanting to fit in was a huge deal to me growing up. I wanted to be liked and accepted by my family and friends. In fact, that someone should think ill of me was extremely terrifying. I did all I could to be all things to all people. Unfortunately, this way of being deprived me from what I wanted most, connection and community with my peers.” – Brian
第三种——成就型人格(想要成功):“融入是我成长中的一件大事。我想被家人和朋友喜欢、接受。事实上有些人会把我想歪,觉得我非常可怕。为了迎合所有人,我会做尽所有我能做到的事情。不幸的是,这种方法剥夺了我最想要的东西,和同伴们的联系与交流。”
Do the right thing, even when no one is looking. – Anonymous
做对的事情,即使没有人看。——佚名
Four-Romantic (having an artistic temperament): “I’m emotionally sensitive, intense, self-critical, and feel melancholy or depressed a lot of the time. Throughout my life I have felt misunderstood. When people would tell me to be myself, I never felt I could because I always felt different. I feel all alone. Whenever I had an opinion I would voice it, yet I would feel like everyone would look at me funny. I want to talk everything out. I get stressed out.” - Shaun
第四种人格——浪漫型人格(拥有艺术家气质):“我很敏感、热情,有自我批判精神,很多时候都感觉抑郁和沮丧。从始到终我都觉得我的生活被人们误解着。当人们告诉我要做自己时,我从来不认为自己能做到,因为我总是与众不同。我感觉很孤单。不管什么时候,每当我想说出我的想法时,我觉得大家都会认为我很搞笑。我想把所有的想法都说出来。我的压力很大。”
Romantics find beauty in things others don’t even notice. – Author unknown
浪漫的人总能发现别人发现不了的美丽。——佚名