标题: 资讯：怎样拯救尴尬的聊天（中英文） [打印本页] 作者: Emma 时间: 2019-1-24 20:38 标题: 资讯：怎样拯救尴尬的聊天（中英文）
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1. Pay a compliment
1.称赞对方 When you meet some** for the first time, pay that person a compliment when repeating their name, thus helping to anchor and embed it even deeper i** your memory.
你第一次见到某个人时，重复对方名字时称赞对方，这有助于你记住对方的名字并加深这个记忆。
2. Ask lots of questions—good questions
2.多问问题——问好问题 How do you give your conversation partner the pleasure of a good conversation? Ask them questions—a lot of questions, and **s that call for more than vague **-word answers. This may lay the groundwork for a true friendship.
你怎么能让聊天对象有好的聊天体验?问他们问题，问很多不是含糊的一个词就能回答的问题，这会给你们真正的友谊打下基础。
3. Make a game out of small talk
3.利用闲聊**游戏 Say something like, ‘Tell me three things about your company, and I’ll guess what company it is.’ Or, ‘What’s that you’re drinking? Wait—let me guess.’.”
你可以这样说：“告诉我关于你们公司的三件事，我来猜猜这是什么公司，”或者“你在喝什么?等等，让我猜猜”。
4. Try to make their day better
4.尽量让他们高兴 You can ask these questions: “On a scale of ** to ten, how was your day?” Any** can think of a number between ** and ten. After they respond, ask them this: “Is there anything I can do to move you from a six to a seven?” You’d be surprised how happy this little gesture will make some**.
你可以问这些问题：“1分到10分，你今天的心情打几分?”每个人都能想出1-10的一个数字，他们回答之后，再问：“我能**点什么让你从6分变成7分?”你会惊讶地发现这个小举动会让对方很**心。
5. Play the sympathy card
5.打同情牌 “I once went to a party and met a very beautiful woman whose job was to help celebrities wear Harry Winston jewelry. I could tell that she was disappointed, but when I told her that her job sounded difficult to me she brightened and spoke for 30 straight minutes about sapphires,” Paul Ford wrote in his essay.
Paul Ford在随笔中写道：“我曾去参加一个聚会，遇到一个非常漂亮的女士，她的工作是帮名人戴海瑞·温斯顿(珠宝品牌)的首饰，我能看出来她很失望，但当我告诉她她的工作对我来说很难时她就高兴了，跟我连续聊了30分钟蓝宝石的话题。”
6. Seek their opinion
6.征求对方意见 If you ask some** for advice or a favor and they oblige you, they will be psychologically primed to like you and help you again.
如果你征求某人的意见或求对方帮忙，他们会帮你的，他们会在心里**始喜欢你，还会再次帮你。
7. Pass the topic to some** else
7.把话题留给别人 Not every** is going to be fascinated by that documentary you’re obsessed with. Let other people co**ibute to the conversation. If they change the topic when given the chance, let it go.
不是每个人都会被你喜欢的纪录片吸引，让别人也参与到对话中，如果给对方机会时对方转移话题了，那你就不要管了。
8. Repetition is key
8.关键是要重复 Start by repeating the last thing the person said to sum up their point. That’s very effective because you’re saying, ‘I’ve been listening to you.’
你可以**始重复对方说的最后一件事来总结对方的看法，这招很有效，因为你是在告诉对方：“我一直在听你说话。”
9. Exit gracefully
9.优雅地结束对话 If you’re at a party, excuse yourself to get a drink; if you’re at work, you can leave to get some coffee. You can also say, ‘It’s nice talking to you, but I have to talk to some** before they leave.”
如果你在参加聚会，可以找借口说去拿点喝的。如果是在工作，可以起身去喝点咖啡。你还可以说：“跟你聊天真**心，但我得赶在别人离**前跟他说几句话。”
