标题: 5个信号告诉你，该停止追求你的目标了 下 [打印本页] 作者: 司马如花 时间: 2015-10-27 11:23 标题: 5个信号告诉你，该停止追求你的目标了 下 4. You’ve Dug Yourself Into a Hole 你已经为自己挖了一个坑。
Whether you’ve invested a lot of money into a business that just isn’t working, or you’ve devoted endless hours to a project that no longer seems viable, knowing you’ve dug yourself into a hole can be really frustrating. Despite the gloomy outlook, it can be tempting to keep going. But saying, “I’ve invested this much, I might as well keep going,” doesn’t make much sense.
你是否已经往生意了投了很多钱进仍不起作用，或者你已经在一个项目上投入了数不清的时间，但这个项目不再发展，这个时候明白自己已经给自己挖了一个坑实在是很令人沮丧。尽管前景黑暗，还要依旧试着前进。“我已经投入了这么多，倒不如继续做下去”，但是这样说并没有多大意义。
The only thing worse than being on a sinking ship, is staying on board until it’s completely sunk. Acknowledge when things aren’t going well and be willing to walk away before things get worse.
比沉船还要糟糕的事情是，依旧站在甲板上直到船体完全沉没。要敢于承认事情发展得不顺利，并且在事情变得更糟之前愿意放手。
5. The Risks Outweigh the Benefit 风险超过好处
Sometimes, the excitement over the benefit of reaching your goal can cloud your judgement and cause you to overlook the risks you’ll face getting there. If you’re goal has a negative impact on your health, your relationships, or your wallet, rethink your options. Sometimes, the risk is just too great.
有时候，目标背后的好处带来的兴奋感会模糊你的判断，会使你忽略为了实现目标而面对的风险。如果目标对你的健康、人际关系或者你的财富产生消极影响，那么就要重新思考你的选择。有时候，风险实在是太大了。
Take time to carefully calculate the risk associated with reaching your goals. Monitor the cost of your objectives and be willing to step away when the risk outweighs the potential reward.
花时间仔细评估目标背后的风险。监测设立目标所需付出的代价，并且当风险超过潜在的回报时，及时停止。
How to Make the Decision 如何做决定
Quitting your goals shouldn’t be a decision you take lightly, nor one that you make out of haste. Just because you feel tired, frustrated, or disappointed doesn’t mean you should give up.
停止追求目标不应该是一个轻率决定，也不应是仓促之下做出的决定。
Make the decision based on a careful balance between your emotion and your logic. Take time to really think about the pros and the cons of continuing versus the pros and the cons of quitting.
在你的情绪和思维方式中找一个审慎的平衡点，在此基础上做决定。花时间仔细思考继续追求目标和放弃追求目标的优缺点。
Choosing to walk away doesn’t mean you’re a failure. Giving up on today’s goal could actually be a stepping stone to your future success.
选择停止追寻目标并不意味你是一个失败者。放弃今天的目标，实际上会成为一块奠定未来成功的基石。
很有意思的放弃理由